Here's my Rule #1 for Project Managers, as looked at from the perspective of a software developer:
Show active interest in your project, and in the people that work on the project.
Okay, I know that seems obvious -- and I'm a little fired up about this right now -- but I've been amazed to work with project managers in the last few years who seem to have more important things to do outside of work than they have to do at work, and by this I only mean during the Monday through Friday, 8-to-5 time frame.