Drupal form FAQ: How do I redirect a user when they submit a form, and I'm writing a hook_form_alter function to alter that form?
In Drupal 6 you set the "$form['#redirect']" property in your hook_form_alter function when you alter the form, like this:
$form['#redirect'] = 'thank-you';
That syntax tells Drupal to redirect the user to the "/thank-you" URI on your website.
Here's the source code for a full hook_form_alter function I just pulled from a working Drupal module: