My happiness depends on me

I love these quotes:

- My happiness depends on me.
- Do not give anyone else responsibility for how you feel.

Unfortunately, many people blame other people for their problems. I hear people say, “If only so-and-so would do xyz, I’d be happy.” Guess what? No you won’t! Nobody else is ever going to give you lasting happiness. If your friend/sibling/whatever is a slacker, they’re a slacker! (And guess what else? You’re judging them, and that makes you judgmental!) Get over it, move on! Tend to your own garden. You make yourself miserable, and you can also make yourself happy. It’s your choice. Stop blaming others.