Thoughts are not facts

“Thoughts are not facts.”

~ A quote from a local psychologist on the radio.

It seems that people who worry, worry about thoughts, not reality. I remember worrying a few years ago about doing a dance at a wedding, and in the end the reality was that I never had the chance to dance. What a waste of time that worry was.

This is a page from my book, “A Survival Guide for New Consultants”

Giving advice: If you were my brother ...

“The way is not difficult. 

Only there must be no wanting, 
or not-wanting.”


Once you’ve become the high-paid, top-level consultant you desire to be, an important of your work comes down to giving advice. Once the big decisions have been made, there can also be a ton of detail work to be done -- but it all starts with the big decisions.

Just the facts - Facebook privacy changes, May, 2010

Facebook privacy facts: I was thinking about writing an article on the "facts" behind the new Facebook privacy changes, as many people seem rightfully upset by them, but few seem to know the actual Facebook privacy facts.

Five facts about your Facebook privacy settings

The best, short article I've found that covers some of the "facts" about the Facebook privacy changes is this article on MacWorld.com. It doesn't cover everything, but it does discuss: